Why can’t I let go? I have always struggled with letting go of people, things, places, hell even clothes….(no am not a hoarder) but I have always been the one to hold on to memories and emotions of things, people, places longer than I should have. So finally I decided to think about it and dig deeper…What I found was my belief that I control my future and hence I have always been focused on outcomes and not on the process…so basically I am trying to control what I can’t and clearly letting go of what I can control. Our power lies in the process which will eventually take us to the right outcome which may be even better than we envisaged. I have always worked backwards…adjusted myself, my attitude, my behaviours everything so I could reach that outcome and it hasn’t worked well for me…Letting go hurts…losing control is not easy but it is liberating…it makes u feel lighter but with a dull pain which lasts a few weeks…but overall it exposes you to better things in life…holding on only blocks us from moving further in this finite lifetime…so I have decided to do myself a favour and just enjoy and stay true to the process and let things unfold…